after eating beef with family

For my current project, I could earn more money from extra work paying. So our family spent a little more than previous. Something like eating beed or giving child presents. By the way, as spending a little more, I felt there are so many kind of thefts. So, I was not happy although spending money. I know paying was by my will. But I was so naive. As I didnt know that spending area, I followed theit recommendation which was bias. So, I felt when spending, beginners should be cautious and think much. I think that is the bad respect of this capitalism.